Thursday, December 31, 2009

Can my fiance and I get married even tho I have fiancial debts and he has top security clearance in the nav?

My fiance and I want to get married before he graduates A-School, but will we bump into problems since he has top secret security clearance and i have financial debts even if its only about $3000-$4000?Can my fiance and I get married even tho I have fiancial debts and he has top security clearance in the nav?
That should pose no problemCan my fiance and I get married even tho I have fiancial debts and he has top security clearance in the nav?
yes
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  • Who can get more tax money - married or single couple?

    Take a couple with one child. Say the mother makes approx. 12,000 a year. The father about twice as much. Will an unmarried couple qualify for the bigger refund by filing seperately, or will a married couple filing a joint return get more back?Who can get more tax money - married or single couple?
    It's called the marriage penalty. Commonly happens when one spouses income is significantly higher than the others. Here is the way they must file to receive the maximum refund. Mother files single and claims the children as a non-dependent for Earned Income Credit. The father files Head of household and claims the child as a dependent.


    It sucks for us married folk. You would think as much ';morality'; and Christianity that the Republicans preach that they wouldn't penalize people for getting married. Instead they reward you for living together unmarried but yet ban gay marriages. Go figure!Who can get more tax money - married or single couple?
    You have no option, if you are married, to file both as single. You have to file either married filing jointly, or married filing seperately.





    Married filing seperately is NEVER worth it.
    married
    married
    A married couple.
    married filing joint depending on other dependents or other deductions...for example do they own property or rent
    Every above is true, file as married filing jointly. However, with your income levels, you are low enough to get the Earned Income Tax Credit even with filing jointly. DO NOT file MFS.

    I鈥檓 in love with my friend who is already engaged to be married. What should I do?

    Should I let her know my feelings for her or just forever hold my piece? I鈥檓 in love with my friend who is already engaged to be married. What should I do?
    Just forever hold your piece. Obviously, she doesn鈥檛 love you, she loves that guy she is getting married to and there鈥檚 no point of telling her your feelings. You should have told her about your feelings when she was still single. Besides, telling her your feelings at this point might even jeopardize your friendship. I think it鈥檚 best that you just shut your mouth and focus your attention to somebody else and just be a good friend to her! I know it will be hard but who says life is fair?





    I鈥檓 in love with my friend who is already engaged to be married. What should I do?
    First of all, take a deep breath and see things clear. Be REASONABLE, that is observe whether you are infatuated or you are really devoted to this girl and you will be RESPONSIBLE of giving her your love, respect her, and know her. Keep in mind that she's about to get married, what goes around comes around, you might ruin 3 people's lives here. Say you tell her you love her, then she falls for you, her fiance is left devastated, then you make a life with her, you get bored, she starts to resent you, she leaves you and becomes an alcoholic. Or, you fall for her, you tell her, she falls for you, fiance is left devastated, you guys go on and date, you get engaged eventually, someone appears in her life that suddenly shakes her world, this guy (just like you) is debating whether he confess his love for this engaged girl or not, he finally does, then she tells you ';I'm so sorry, baby, but we can remain friends';. You are left devastated.





    Sorry to be dramatic, but what I'm saying is that you take control of your emotions, don't let them control YOU. Be reasonable and see what's right. There are 6 billion people out there, do you really have to pick this girl?
    I do know how you feel, but it's best to move on, keep your feelings to yourself and be happy for her.





    What's that saying? ';There's plenty of fish in the sea.'; It's true and there is that special someone out there for you! It hurts, I know, as I've been in a similar situation as yourself. Yet, someone great will come into your life and things will be just fine.





    All the best to you!!
    You picked a fine time to start pondering this question. I would say a firm NO. You should have expressed your feelings way before she's engaged. Don't say something that will mean the end of your friendship with her.

    Why would a married couple choose to file Married Filing Separately?

    The only reason I could possibly come up with would be spousal debt. The spouse without debt would want the entire refund they are allowed without being penalized for the debts of their mate. The IRS and State Government WILL put a Lien on any refund for outstanding federal or state debts. I even heard about a state in the Midwest that did it for parking tickets. I don't recall the state.





    But if you do have a spouse with passed debt, child support, student loans, things like that. You can still get the entire refund due you based on your earnings and with-holdings by filing a form 8679. http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f8379.pdf





    Will take a bit longer though. And if your state has an income tax they may have different rules.Why would a married couple choose to file Married Filing Separately?
    Whereas many of the previous answers are correct by saying it typically isn't worthwhile another reason not mentioned is when one spouse is asset rich but income poor. The spouse has a large amount of portfolio management fees whilst the other has ordinary income. Typically MFS comes into play for AMT reasons and can also affect one's ability to take a deduction for investment interest in the scenario I suggested.Why would a married couple choose to file Married Filing Separately?
    Occasionally, it's better financially. This pretty much only happens if one has large medical expenses, or unreimbursed employee business expenses, that are limited to taking an amount over some percent of AGI. Even then, it often does not end up with less overall taxes paid, but it can depending on amounts.





    Sometimes people just want to keep their finances totally separate, so file separately.
    Since there're very few mathematical reasons why anymore, it's usally because one has a debt to the IRS or student loans or something like that and the other partner doesn't wnat his/her half of the refund to pay the debt of the spouse.





    Yeah, get married, but don't trust your spouse....sounds like a relationship on shaky ground to start.

    Will the United States Marines if married get benefits?

    The state allowed them to get married but not every states allows this type of marriage.Will the United States Marines if married get benefits?
    If married to a SAME sex partner, NYET


    If married in heterosexual relationship, YES





    This would apply to the Army Air Corps (USAF), NAVY, ARMY and Coast Guard as well.





    (This query is a little lame in your reknowned trollin' department for this early, are you feeling well?)Will the United States Marines if married get benefits?
    Look your medication needs updating because you can't get a coherent question out about gay marriage for Marines. I see you are now on a new subject for awhile. Let me guess they come in the Bob Big Boys where you busy boy at and cry because they can go to war but not get married. You offer to buy them lemon ade since you got in the lemon business and offer to poke them in the butt since you like packing fudge. Get a life troll.
    I am really confused about this question. Do you mean a Marine got married to a same sex partner? That would be very weird. How would you explain that to the Marines? Not sure what you meant.


    I am sure it will be a new issue and they will have to figure out how to deal with it.


    I thought the policy was still ';don't ask, don't tell';. How do you not tell?
    omg...give it a rest you annoying troll.

    The secret ? asks where I met my spouse but I've never been married so it's a wrong ?. How to change it?

    I cannot go through the secret question help form without providing the answer but since I have never been married it is impossible to answer. How can I change the secret question?The secret ? asks where I met my spouse but I've never been married so it's a wrong ?. How to change it?
    You need to fill something on that line to proceed with the form. Just say you are single and fill the rest of the form.The secret ? asks where I met my spouse but I've never been married so it's a wrong ?. How to change it?
    Like to get your password? Just think about what your favorite place is maybe you put that.
    I'm sorry, sweetcheeks. I have NO clue wtf you are talking about.

    Monday, December 28, 2009

    How do you delete your 360 profile? I made one when I got married the last time now divorced.?

    Its all wedding related.How do you delete your 360 profile? I made one when I got married the last time now divorced.?
    Log into Yahoo as the Yahoo ID that you are talking about. Go to http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/edit/ch鈥?/a> and click the Account Deletion link. If you read through the text, you will find this will also delete all associated services for that account like Yahoo! Mail. I recommend removing any content that you've added to your 360 before deleting your entire account.





    NOTE: If a COMPLETELY deleted account doesn't result in a deleted 360 page, contact CUSTOMER CARE by clicking the button at the bottom of this page: http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/edit/re鈥?/a> or use the ABUSE FORM at http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/360/abu鈥?/a> . You can also call 1-866-562-7219, 1-408-349-1572, 1-408-349-3300 Hours: 8a-5p M-F (Pacific). It's possible that you won't be deleted COMPLETELY from the user registration database until after 90 days.


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    BUT if you don't want to completely lose your Yahoo ID, then I suggest removing all content and information that you added to Yahoo! 360. Make all your settings (basic info, blog, communication, and every module on your ';My Page';) set to ';Friends'; or ';Just Me (Private)';. The ';Just Me (Private)'; setting is preferred, but if you don't have that option choose ';Friends.'; Delete all your friends (see http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/360/fri鈥?/a> ). Remove content from automatically public areas like the Personal Profile Picture module and Top Page comments. Change the background back to the default version - either called the ';custom'; or ';classic'; theme. Then, that's it.








    You can't completely get rid of the 360 functionality without deleting your entire Yahoo account. The second-best option is to make sure no one who you haven't invited can view a feature and make sure that there's nothing there to view.How do you delete your 360 profile? I made one when I got married the last time now divorced.?
    You're welcome. Thanks for voting and rating!

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    i think it costs you so many points to change it best thing to do would be contact them and see what they say..
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  • Do you believe that guy and girl bestfriends fall in love and get married?

    Well I didn't used to..


    Cuz I have a guy bestfriend and I would have never imagined I'd fall in love with him.


    And he says he's in love with me.


    We want to get married when we are older but right now we are only 14.


    Do you think it will happen?


    Have you had this experience?


    Do you believe in it?Do you believe that guy and girl bestfriends fall in love and get married?
    I do believe in it. I think that it is the best way to fall in love. You have known the person before you liked them so you really know them. there is a good chance it will work out, maybe better since you have been friends.Do you believe that guy and girl bestfriends fall in love and get married?
    Everything can happen. Why not?





    Can you help me and answer my question?


    Thank you!





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…





    Everyone else, you can help me, too. Please answer mine too. I appreciate it!


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
    Yes, it is possible. But every case is different and particular. You cannot make general conclusions about this. Will it work for you? We don't know. You just live day by day and be patient. You are just 14 years old and you don't have to worry about it too much. Take care.





    Jaime Montoya


    webmatser@jaimemontoya.com


    http://www.jaimemontoya.com
    its possible.


    and happens all the time.





    but you always have to think that you are really young. dont forget to open your eyes to other possibilities.
    Yea....you might want to get to your homework for now, baby. You have plenty of years to go.
    I believe it can happen





    i think Girl and Guy friendships(especially BESTfriends) can lead into the perfect relationship





    im happy for you all!
    It can happen, but not for everyone obviously.
    It happens all the time.......
    Well I really don't know but I'll see. My best friend is a guy and well, I'll see.
    it can happen, but normally it's the other way around...fall in love, then become bff
    i believe its true cuz i'm a couple with my best friend for four years now :D
    Yes, it is possible. I'm happy for you both :)
    rarely. the guy mostly just stays in the friend zone
    not always. sometimes that can happen. not when one of them is gay!

    401k rollover to Roth IRA for married couple both age 60, Does it make financial sense?

    With the new rule in effect as of March 2008 allowing a direct 401k rollover to Roth IRA, could you shed some light on this scenario: A couple, both over 60 files jointly and will be earning less income when retired. Currently both are working and earn 100,000. When retired their income will be 46,000. They have 300,000 combined in their 401k and would like to know if it makes financial sense to rollover to a Roth Ira. Thank you for your help.401k rollover to Roth IRA for married couple both age 60, Does it make financial sense?
    The short answer is - it depends on the tax rate. Let's take 3 scenarios: Tax rates stay the same, your taxes are lower in retirement and finally your taxes are higher in retirement.





    Assumptions:


    1) You pay for the conversion out-of-pocket (as opposed to funding it with monies in the 401(k)).


    2) If you do not convert, you invest what you would have paid in conversion costs in a taxable account.





    Currently, your marginal tax rate is 28% and in retirement it will be 25%. Paying 28% now, when you can pay 25% later makes a ROTH less attractive. If the government decides to raise taxes, when you retire, a ROTH makes more sense.





    Now, there are other subtle differences between the types of accounts, like required minimum distribtions, that effect estate planning. This example does not consider this.





    You can make a case either way if the government will raise or lower taxes in the future. Since we do not know with certainty, I suggest another option. Rollover 1/2 of your account. Keep some in a pre-tax account (401k) and some in a post tax account (ROTH).





    This is a different kind of diversification - tax diversification. See the source that I listed from vanguard.

    Korean TV Variety Show-- ';We Got Married'; How does the show timeline work?

    How exactly does the timeline on the show work?





    Do the couples see each other every other week?


    And when they do get together, how long are they together? Just one day for the filming? Or do they actually stay together in the same house even when it's not being filmed?





    Does anyone know how the shows works? xD I'm really confused.Korean TV Variety Show-- ';We Got Married'; How does the show timeline work?
    I think the couples see each other once a week for a day or two. Sometimes they stay longer like the episodes where they went on vacation together. There are times when it may appear that they are together more than one day because they split the whole thing into two episodes.





    I'm not sure if this is correct but this is how I see it. I love this show, its so good. %26lt;3. Hope this helped =]

    How to find info on getting married at the courthouse?

    I am deploying to Iraq on Sunday and I need to get married to my fiance before i leave. I need to know how to find out all the information for Tulsa Oklahoma. If you know any website that proviedes information like cost and timeframe it would be very helpful.How to find info on getting married at the courthouse?
    Check the official Oklahoma state Web site. It should tell you how much the license is, and how far in advance you need to apply for it. You could also call the courthouse or county clerk's office, and ask for yourself.





    Best wishes for a safe return home. Thank you for your hard work and bravery!How to find info on getting married at the courthouse?
    you can check through the state page and if there is a waiting period it is waived for people who are active duty in the military. My fiancee and I have already looked into it for us and I live in Texas right now and he is stationed in California. He is getting ready to deploy as well in feb.
    Do you know if there is a waiting period in Oklahoma for marriage licenses? In my state, you go buy your license but you have to wait 3 days before marrying.
    You need to go to the courthouse and fill out the paper work. Then you have to find a minister to marry you. Then you have to get all the paper work done for the military. I've forgotten how much she can do by herself. I know she can get her ID on her own, but it's been over 8 years since I had to do this.





    This website should tell you about the requirements for Oklahoma.


    http://usmarriagelaws.com/search/united_鈥?/a>
    Just do a search for ';Tulsa, Oklahoma marriage requirements.'; You should find what you're looking for! Good luck!

    In Virginia, How long do you have to live together to be legally married?

    Does anyone know?In Virginia, How long do you have to live together to be legally married?
    You have to go through a legal marriage to be legally married in Virginia.





    Virginia does not allow the creation of a “common law” marriage, a relationship in which a couple lives together but have not participated in a lawful ceremony. Unlike some other states, in Virginia a couple cannot acquire marital rights and responsibilities by living together for a particular period of time. You do not need legal action to end such a relationship, if it was created in Virginia.





    However, Virginia does recognize as valid, common law marriages created in other states if the legal requirements of those states have been met. As a result, legal action is needed to dissolve legal “common law” marriages performed in other states and foreign countries in compliance with their licensing and ceremonial regulations. The courts are available for determining the rights of parties now living in Virginia.In Virginia, How long do you have to live together to be legally married?
    Never. In Virginia a couple cannot acquire marital rights and responsibilities by living together for a particular period of time.
    Living together has nothing to do with it. To be legally married in Virginia you have to go through a state-recognized marriage ceremony. Virginia does not recognize so-called ';common law'; marriage.





    Richard
    there's no common law marriage in VA, so you can live together as long as you want, but you won't be legally married unless you actually get married.
    just friggin get married. why wait around?

    Saturday, December 26, 2009

    Are there any cheats to getting married to Muffy in Harvest Moon DS without finding the 60 Sprites?

    If not, where are all the sprites? Just sprites that you find walking around though..... I have found 19.....aaahhh i am so frustrated! If there are any cheats at all please tell me i am sssooo desperate! Or some cheats to finding sprites?Are there any cheats to getting married to Muffy in Harvest Moon DS without finding the 60 Sprites?
    no.


    i have 40 sprites, Muffy is at max level, but i can't find the other dang 20!


    by the way, i've had this game since LAST Christmas.


    so frusturating!
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  • I am getting married to an Italian in a church in Italy - can I get married in a registry office in Britain to?

    I am getting married to an Italian in a church in Italy - would I be able to marry in a registry office in Britain ?I am getting married to an Italian in a church in Italy - can I get married in a registry office in Britain to?
    hiya, no you can't get married again,in a register office in uk.you can only get married once at the same time.you can have a blessing .which a lot of people do.like if they get married abroad,and some of the family can't make it.then they come home and have a blessing with a few drinks/food after, your wedding in italy, you could have it on another day.you can still were your wedding dress,and have your bridesmaids in there dresses.just the same as your wedding day.and you invite all the people you want to come.xI am getting married to an Italian in a church in Italy - can I get married in a registry office in Britain to?
    No. If you are already married you can't get married again. If your Italian ceremony is legal in Italy, it is recognised in the UK. You can have a vow renewal at a Registry Office or a blessing in a church if you so wish.





    If you have any queries regarding a ceremony in the UK ask at your local registry office. I found mine to be very helpful.
    I'm not sure if you can marry in a registry office but you would def be able to have some sort of ceremony.





    My cousin married here in a hotel, and then had another service in Australia, with her husband's family.
    Yes.

    Is it proper etiquette for a married women to accept a drink from another man?

    I'm going to a bacheolerette party and I haven't been out with out my husband in a long time. So, I need some proper social etiquette advise!Is it proper etiquette for a married women to accept a drink from another man?
    As long as you have your wedding ring on and you let the guy know that you are married go ahead and accept the drink. Make sure you get it from the bartender and not the guy. Some guys just want to make small talk and if you are with a group where a guy buys a round of drinks for everyone it would be rude to stand up and say ';I'm married I can not accept this.'; Not every guy in the bar is just some sex maniac trying to get you liquored up. If you are straight from the beginning you shouldn't have any problems. Free drinks are great.Is it proper etiquette for a married women to accept a drink from another man?
    Its perfectly fine...its a free drink, not a contract (at least not in this damn country).





    I buy a girl a drink as a courtesy and perhaps a way to spark a little conversation. Most of the women brush me off politely, others are completely indifferent to my existence and yet others react in abject horror by flinging the expensive top shelf martini in my face before regrouping with her friends who all join in mocking me.





    Its all par for the course. The bottom line is, every guy who isn't a complete tool knows that buying a girl a drink means nothing. Enjoy the free booze. I need a *** **** drink.
    No it is not if the man is trying to flirt and make contact with you. It is up to you to set the boundaries and honor your marriage. Just say, ';No thank you.';
    It's not okay and you should go out with your husband more.
    I dont think that if you are married that you should accept a drink from another man. I think that is leading him on and you shouldnt do that when you are married. I dont think you should be rude. I would just politley say no thankyou i am married.
    l would never accept a drink from another guy if l was married.Buy your own and then you are under no obligation to anyone whatsoever.This way you have no one to answer to.
    ';I'm honored, however, I can't accept as I am in a happy marrige'; not only is it polite and respecting to your husband IT IS SAFE! you never know who its from! it could be spiked for all you know or the guy is not a well-minded person...
    You have to feel you way through this one. I've been in several situation like this...some men buys a drink because they think it's equilavent to a telephone number or sex. A mature man will ask the waiter what you're drinking and then inform the waiter/bartendar to send the drink over...a mature man will just raise his glass from wherever he is just to say hey cheer here:) and then you never make contact physical contact.....there are still classy men left in the world...I have taken offers for men to buy me drinks since I've been married; in all 2 or 3 cases they have the bartendar to send it over...I've only had to get nasty with one guy....


    Nevertheless, if you and your husband are good friends; talk to him and see what or how he feels...


    You'd be surprise...but I'm certain you know most men have double standards....because it's no way that my hubby is going out with his homeboys..and a decline a drink from an attractive women....he'll tell you he didn't.or won't...but he's with his boys...he'll gladly accept...
    If you tell the guy you are married and he still wants to buy you a drink then that's on him. You did your part,if he starts that are you happily married thing and starts sticking to you like gum,then ask him if you can buy him a drink and call it even and leave you alone. That's if you want him to leave you alone. That should work,but it's okay to go out and have fun and not have to tell every dude you are married, unless they get to agressive,like some guys do. You have to use good judgement some guy's you should not take a drink from at all. You'll know him when you see him.
    Don't do it! Something is urging you to SIN. STOP!
    I don't think that you should accept drinks from other men as it is leading them on. You should politely decline saying that you are married. Also it reduces the risk of someone spiking the drink.

    How do you go about getting married in new york state while you are in foster care at the age of 16?

    im 16 in foster care and my caseworker told me that there is someway to get married at 16 to get out of foster care if your bf is over 18, but she is not aloud to give me info about it.. anyone know anything that could help?How do you go about getting married in new york state while you are in foster care at the age of 16?
    http://marriage.about.com/cs/marriagelic鈥?/a>


    From what this states, you will need a parental consent form filled out by both parents.How do you go about getting married in new york state while you are in foster care at the age of 16?
    try calling the judge or his office and ask,the county clerk should know.Just be sure you are not getting out of the frying pan into the fire.

    If you get married Dec 30th can you claim married on taxes for whole year?

    Yes, your marital status on December 31 is what determines filing status, except for if your spouse dies during the year, then it is treated as if you were married for the entire year.





    Solly, wanna show me where on the 1040 tax return it asks what date you were married?If you get married Dec 30th can you claim married on taxes for whole year?
    TFBA

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    If you get married Dec 30th can you claim married on taxes for whole year?
    Yes, as long as you are married by the 31st of December, it counts.
    Yes, just make sure that your marriage certificate is filed by that date, and you have a record of it.
    Yep.....
    Not only can you, you MUST. Your marital status on 12/31 determines your filing status for the entire year.
    Yes, you can. But make sure if the wife changes her name, notify SS office right away in order to avoid complications.
    yes you sure can same if you have a child by midnight the 31st can claim also
    Remain married on December 31st.
    Yes you can.





    Just don't be getting married for the tax break.
    Yes!


    As well, if you have a child December 31, the child would have lived with you 12 months!





    If you are filing electronically, your wife will need to use whatever name is listed with the Social Security Administration...it takes about 6 weeks for both agencies to update changes....
    Naw...when you do your taxes, they will ask the date you were married, you can calim together, but I would wait a whole year to do so..reason be, you might bump him/her in to a higher tax bracket, then you will owe money instead of getting a return...If you own a house together just choose one to write it off on...Nest year file jointly...

    My Bf is asking questions about us and picking a date to be married?

    Hi im the gurl that he is marrying... we talked about everything else and all i asked was for him to pick a day and then we would go from there... i love him very much and i hope that everything gets settled...My Bf is asking questions about us and picking a date to be married?
    THIS IS THE BF yeah i hope everything is settled .. I PICK THE 1ST


    we gotta get startedMy Bf is asking questions about us and picking a date to be married?
    haha aww bless! you havent got long if youre getting married in december! id be suprised if any venues are left! id got for 2010 as i answered to the other quesiton
    Awww thats kute!!!