Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Do you feel the person you married is the person you're supposed to be with?

I mean, is your spouse your match made in heaven, or did you settle?Do you feel the person you married is the person you're supposed to be with?
I know this sounds crazy, but I swear I knew I was going to marry my husband from the moment I met him. I had never had that feeling like I did the first time I laid eyes on him. I got this weird feeling in my stomach and my heart started racing. I knew this was the person I was meant to spend my life with.





Before he came into my life I could never have imagined marrying someone less then three months after I met them, but that's what happened with him and I and it just seemed so right. It's been 12 years and four kids later and we are still very much in love. I have never doubted for a moment that he is the one.Do you feel the person you married is the person you're supposed to be with?
i used to boast about a perfect love a perfect life and when i looked in his eyes he seemed so familiar i thought that my X husband was it and then i woke up and looked in his eyes and their was a stranger there i started having thoughts like-i feel like i am cheating-how culd i cheat when i was never with anyone but him i was the ';loyal'; wife but i was cheating not in body but in soul thats how i knew that as much as i thought i kew him, when i looked in his eyes and saw a stranger i knew that i made the biggest mistake of my life and that i had been so selfish and i got divorced. i dont know what is next for me i hope i wish and i cry but never for my exhusband because he was never really the right man he was an elf a hobbit and he couldnt ever fly and i want to fly.
He's sooo the one for me. I spent so much of my teen/ early twenties chasing men that I thought I wanted. I mistook bullshit drama for excitement. I've known my husband for 9 years and he was always there listening to all my guy problems and he was the guy I compared all other men to wishing I could be with someone like him.





Thankfully I don't have to compare anymore. I feel very lucky to have someone who loves, cares, and adores me as much as I do them.
Our second date, the second day after we met, we became a couple. Two months later, we moved in together. About four months after that, we got married.


We've been separated, didn't really have family or friends' support %26amp; had our ups %26amp; downs %26amp; downs %26amp; downs..


I love him more today than I did a year or so earlier.


I don't look at other men like that %26amp; get upset if I'm even flirted with.


He is it for me!


I so didn't settle...
sometimes i feel like i settled since he was my first EVERYTHING, first boyfriend, first to have sex with, first everything.





but, when it comes to deeper issues, I feel we're just right for each other.
Absolutely 100% without doubt
Absofreakinglutely
yes everything is good. I have settled before, not this time
Yep she's the one.
I settled the first time this time I got it right!!!!!!!!!!
YES!!


NEVER a doubt.


Married 10 days after we met.
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