How do you know when you've crossed the line when you are married?

From friends into something more. Obviously sex or sexual behavior, but what about emotionally?How do you know when you've crossed the line when you are married?
When you no longer feel you can talk to your spouse honestly and truthfully about your feelings about the other person.





That's the big ol' red flag: the urge to withhold information from/deceive one's spouse. When you cross that line, you've emotionally ';checked out'; of your relationship with your spouse.





Trust is central to a good relationship with your spouse, and if your spouse finds that he/she cannot trust you to be honest about your feelings towards other people, the marriage is like a ship that has sprung a leak: it doesn't feel safe anymore.





Also like a ship with a leak, if you ignore the problem, it's only going to get worse.How do you know when you've crossed the line when you are married?
You crossed the line when your spouse is un aware of your friendship. When you do everything in your power to see this friend and still try to hold on to your spouse. Without the spouse knowing about it. It's gonna hurt the spouse no matter how you put it, whether it be sex or just talking. It's living a double life. And it's wrong. And if your trying to find away to justify your actions, your not gonna get it here.
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One thing isn't really enough to say zomgwtf affair!!!


It's about boundaries and being cognizant of the relationship and keeping your spouse as your primary emotional focus.





The 'nuclear assault' is when you start thinking about ending your marriage, or running away from it, to try to be with them which will eventually happen if you continue to ignore your marriage and focus on this 'friendship' instead.





If you have any love for you spouse left, you need to tell this 'friend' that ';It's been fun but this had to stop. I'm sorry I have been leaning on you to avoid the problems in my marriage so I am going to be distant for a while; months, maybe longer.';





Then get busy working on your marriage.
i think there is nothing wrong having friends , now when you are alone with them there is the problem - so quick him out before your husband will quick you out for sheeting on him , you will lose more than a friend , because your husband is # 1 first remember that , you can't trust a friend who is looking for a free ride .
yes, I believe emotionally infedility exist. you should be going to your partner for emotional support not the other person. emotions is another way of connectivity and bonding....once you establish that with a person, it's tempted to go beyond that.
Emotional relationships are as bad as sexual. I would say male friends, one on one with you, is a no-no. Because, as you now know, the line may be easy to cross.
When you are confiding in your friend more then your spouse and especially about intimate things, then you have crossed the line.





Your spouse SHOULD be your best friend, your lover and your spouse!
If you're asking this question, you've probably already crossed the line.
There is such a thing as an emotional affair. Look it up on the internet. It is when two people share intimate things with eachother that they should not.
If you have to ask you probably already crossed that line - just sayin'
When you sleep with their best friend , and they make a big deal out of it!
OMG. You know.


You SO know!!


xoxoxo
you know you have already, stop it.
if your asking us, then you allready know.

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