Not getting so close and caught up with someone you may very break up with
If everyone waited not so many people would be hurt and insecure and afraid by the time marriage comes, because it's hard to make a real commitment when past promises have been broken
Retains the integrity of marriage, which almost everyone considers in principle the proper place for sex
And if course I beleive it's wrong outside of marriage
God blessWhat are the benefits of waiting to have sex until you are married?
Many! Some include:
鈥?no reason to fear stds in any form
鈥?no intense emotional attachment until you are in a legally committed relationship (the statistics are staggering vs. those who live together first....those who live together before marriage have higher rates of abuse, poverty, ect...)
鈥?creation of a stronger relationship knowing you had the discipline to wait
What are the benefits of waiting to have sex until you are married?
Well when you're married most likely you love that person more than just as a partner that you're not sure you actually love. Sex would be a lot better then and it would mean more. That's not saying pre-marital sex is always worse than sex after marriage though. And also your V-card is going to be held by your spouse forever and that's pretty special isn't it?
[i] You save money on replacing bedsprings.
[ii] You get to giggle a lot.
[iii] It is likely that you will develop a weight reducing nervous twitch.
[iv] Any STD caught will probably be from a healthy toilet seat.
[v] Development of abnormally strong hand and wrist.
[vi] You come to loathe God for his mean stance about this.
[vii] When you marry, sex will be a lottery.
[viii] Your car seats will not be overly worn.
[ix] Walt Disney productions will continue to thrive.
They feel that somehow God thinks sex is dirty before he blesses your union, but clean after the says it's cool. Essentially, that's what they're telling us.
As responsible adults, we should be free to explore our (and each others! :-o) bodies as we see fit without guilt or fear of judgment... call me crazy!
I can't think of a one.
Edit: People are saying freedom from STDs which is funny. What if you are raped? You were still ';saving yourself';. Does god consider your good behavior and sacrifice null and void, because you're damaged goods?
What if you get herpes kissing a guy? Must we abstain from kissing in this imagined christian utopia?
Total cluelessness about what you're doing, which will lead to either good communication or annulment.
Past that, only the certainties of abstinence, which are less certain after a half-generation of abstinence-only education.
Absolutely nothing. Unless you consider it a benefit to find yourself paired for life with someone you are sexual incompatible with. Yes, it happens, more than you care to imagine.
well you can't have an unplanned pregnancy if you don't have sex. And your stuff can't burn and fall off from an STD if you don't have sex. So there, you will be killing half the abortion issue and help stop world AIDS.
First, knowing you have more purity than 80% of all Americans. Second, no STD's, unwanted pregnancies, etc. Third, your partner will probably find it endearing, if not see it as mandatory.
It depends on the individual. For some there is benefits to have sex younger and some to wait. It would depend on who you are and who you want to become, for each soul yearns different things on this planet.
Peace and light :)
NOTHING! There are no benefits in waiting to have sex until you're married. Just ask yourself, '; What difference does it make?';....None
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i saved myself from unwanted pregnancies, broken heart, and STD's. i didnt have no other man on my mind when i gave myself to my husband.
1. no kids
2. integrity
3. no h.i.v
4. no s.t.d
5. peace of mind
6. oh did i say NO KIDS
to answer your question: unwanted babies. of course you could just use birth control. oh, what the hell. go for it! enjoy yourself, but be safe.
Go to www.pureloveclub.com to the Q%26amp;A section. It is an awesome website. Your questions on sexuality will be answered with this site.
no stds which are more common than you would think
no unwanted pregnancies
a more special and more intimate realtionship
There really are not any. Unless of course you are religious.
I would prefer to know what I was getting and whether or not we were compatible before i made such a bond.
The benefit is that is what God wants us to do. Having sex before marriage is wrong, it's a sin.
A lot of it is psychological. Its hard to explain why, its entirely up to the individual.
Agnostic
I like how everyone is keep saying ';no STD's!!!'; as if marrying someone automatically means they're STD free LOL...
you're less likely to get stds.
also a lot of guys get turned on by virgins and the thought of being the cherry popper.
Your Integrety!
you get to share the experience of loosing your virginity to the one you love, and spend the rest of your life with them
You won't realize how lousy the person you waited for is.
Cold showers and sleepless nights.
None. If you don't your nuts will blow up by the time you hit 21.
None.
no bastard children...is that too harsh?
you get to be STD free!!!! lol ;)
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