I am 4 months pregnant and my long term boyfriend wants to get married now that I am showing. Should we ?

We've been engaged for 2 years but neither of us moved any closer to getting married.I am 4 months pregnant and my long term boyfriend wants to get married now that I am showing. Should we ?
Thats up to you. How would we know?I am 4 months pregnant and my long term boyfriend wants to get married now that I am showing. Should we ?
believe it or not i'm in the same boat. i recently had my baby but we've been engaged over 2 years. I deceided to wait until after the baby to get married. It's enough drama, worry and expense having a baby. If you really want to get married before you need to plan it out (unless you're just going to get legally married).
I think if it is what you want you should. Think about the money aspect of it. Can the two of you afford to pay for this baby to be born? If not you may want to wait a while. Also think about what you want yourself to look like on your wedding day. If your fantasy does not include a basketball underneath your gown you may want to reconsider. I hope all turns out well and congrats on the new addition.
Why are you asking us what you should do?
sure! just make sure the baby isnt the reason he wants to marry you. my boyfriend and i are waiting til the smoke clears and after the baby is born to get married. we've planned on it for a while but dont want the reason to be because of the baby.
yeah if you are in love, but don't waste your time trying to do it for the kid even if your child is happy. he will see that you are not even if you try to hide it. 4 months and showing,, you are going to have a really healthy baby. if i must say big babies make healthy mothers.
If you are doing it b/c you love each other, then do it. Don't get married if you're not ready just b/c there is a baby on the way no matter what these preachy people on here say!
Do you love him like no other?? only get married if it feels right and not because your pregnant. These days you don't have to commit to holy matrimony to have children! Good Luck
Im in the same boat as you marrige is only a peice of paper if you love him yes but if you wait then you can have alot more fun on you honeymoon
that would be really nice as long as you both want it and will look pretty in your pictures. good luck
You're the only ones that canmake that decision not the people on Yahoo!
If you love each other then get married now or wait til after the baby is born either way...but don't get married just because you are pregnant. In today's world that is not a requirement.
Yes well maybe the baby will draw you both closer together,both of you certainly have a obligation to the baby,and the baby will need parents who not only love this new life ,but each other as well.
If you are getting married because you love each other and not just because you're pregnant, then it wont matter when you do it. Do what feels right!! Good luck!
I had a the similar situation and decided to wait until I had the baby only because you will have your wedding pictures forever and I didn't want to be pregnant in them and I also wanted to enjoy my wedding without being tired or sick and be able to enjoy a few glasses of wine.
You should never get married because you are pregnant. But, you can certainly move up a wedding date in the event of a pregnancy, depending on why you have waited so long to begin with. If you have been waiting because one or both of you are not ';ready'; for marriage, then a baby is not going to make you ';ready';. My fiance and I were engaged for 6 months, and then found out we were pregnant. We decided to wait until after she is born so that we can enjoy our wedding, and she can be a part of our big day. We are going to wait until she is around 9 months old, we just haven't pinned down a date yet.
If you love each other why not??





I was 5 months pregnant when i got married %26amp; i wasn't showing yet
i am a 22 year old mom of a 3 year old and a 15 month old i am in a longterm relation ship with a wonderful guy when i got pregnant with my second son we to asked ourself should we get married because i am pregnant and we decided not to because we wanted to wait until we felt the time is right (we are engaged) but only you guys can decide if you think you should or not
WELL U GOT ENGAAGED B4 THE PREG EVEN CAME UP. BUT I WOULD WAIT UNTIL U HAVE THE BABY, PREG IN A WEDDING DRESS WONT MAKE U FEEL GREAT PLUS U DONT NEED STRESS BUT SURE WHY NOT, HE PROB NEEDED A PUSH IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION AND THAT THE BABY
If you are ready - then do it.


Don't do it just because you're pregnant and showing though.


A wedding is a big deal - and so is having a baby.


You might not want to do it all at once.


You can always plan the wedding after the baby comes.


A big first step would be setting a date. Maybe your boyfriend would settle for that - if you're not ready to do it all at once?
how would we answer this question\ hes not our boyfriend thats up to you
Don't get married just because you are pregnant. Wait until you are ready. I made my husband wait until after the baby just to make sure that we were doing it for the right reason.
wait until the baby is born to see how things will go. Dont rush it if you arent ready.
If you don't have a problem getting married when you're showing, then go for it...
You should have had that discussion prior to getting pregnant.