What is life? Is it only getting married and having kids and pleasuring partners? As after certain age people ?

start just talking about their married life, sex, kids and is that it? I am fed up. Does anyone has a same view as mine?What is life? Is it only getting married and having kids and pleasuring partners? As after certain age people ?
Sounds like I'm in a similar place to yourself!





I look around, and I see people who are single constantly spending a lot of energy looking for 'the one'. When they find 'the one', they spend as much time and energy trying to make it work/change their partner/improve their sex life. It's just so tedious. Is this all there is to life!? I'm beginning to wonder if it all just boils down to sex, to be honest. When you cut through all the 'fluffiness', it does seem to be about sex at the core.





I'm 37, and after a long series of short term relationships (2 years and less), I'm actually at a place where I'm not too bothered about meeting someone. I must have been on about 30+ dates via Match.com in the past couple of years, and I've left that behind too. Don't get me wrong, if I meet someone, great, but I'm certainly not looking. There has to more to life than meeting someone.What is life? Is it only getting married and having kids and pleasuring partners? As after certain age people ?
Being happy in your life doesn't have to include being married or having children. It is really up to the individual person to decide what makes them feel fulfilled.





I was perfectly happy before the child and husband. I'm still happy after. I never felt like I was missing out on something and that's what made me have a family life. It just seemed to happen for me. But, my brother (unmarried, no kids, pushing 40), would never be happy if he was ';pinned down'; as he puts it. To each their own.
As one of the other people said, life is what you make it. We all have choices, and you have to live with them.





Everyones different. I want to get married next year/start my own family (im nearly 23).





My partner, is 33 and although is happy enough for that, he'd have not wanted it at my age.





Life is just alot of choices, good and bad.
Change the people you mix with jersey.





My husband and I have decided not to have children, and people look at me sideways. It does not bother me. It wouldnt be them looking after the children.





Life is what you make it and it is no long the 1600's. Everything is there to go and get.





Jion a different social group. Simple.
After living my life in a constant search for ways to make myself happy for 39 years, I finally realized that Happiness could only come through Jesus Christ and truly being born again.





Now, I live each day to the best of my ability to make Him happy and in doing this, I have found peace and happiness.





If you would like to know more on this subject, my e mail is on my profile and it is open.





Greybeard





37 锘縉ow when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?锘?38 锘縏hen Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.



you need to go like risking your life. Go drifting with your friends. Why the Hell not? Go out have fun just flirt with women in the mall and say random things. Go to work with no shirt or clothes.


You dont have to go that crazy but do it alittle and life will be fun and youll feel great.





this is the only way. you dont have to take life so seriously.





WHat i do evryday.
I guess the family environment / lifestyle can be quite an intense one. Everyone lives and works in their own world, their own circle. But I'm single, live alone and have no kids so that's not my life, but I do understand it's the situation for a lot of others.
Sweetheart if you find the answer to your question 'what is life' please let me know. I am sure there are quite a few people on here that would also like to know the answer. I am sure you will find that the answer to this question has been searched for, for many years.
Some people want a partner and marriage. Others prefer to stay single. Both have fores and against. I think it is better have children in an married situation or a stable situation for them.






I am 46 and fed up as well because people theses days can be so nasty and selfish ..They don,t care when they hurt other peoples feeling or let them down its not the of twenty years ago people were much nicer its got to change back some how
Life is about survival and replication.
Jesus the Christ is life and until you receive Him as your Lord you have not begun to live.
Just get on with it, i take it u loved her when u got married !!!!