Can chemistry be one sided between a married couple?

my husband and I have been married a month and a half and sometimes we argue like crazy. There have been times when I yelled ';why did u marry me';. But recetly I've started feeling butterflies for him which I NEVER have before. I never thought he was handsome but all of a sudden I do. And even if we argue I want to call him later that day and talk to him. I wonder if he feels the same. Can chemistry be one sided or should I trust my instincts on this?Can chemistry be one sided between a married couple?
You're married, of course you will argue. Its inevitable, but how you handle it afterwords is what really counts.





So you never thought your husband was handsome he?


Well, its a damn good thing you do right now because you're stuck with him.





I know you want an impartial perspective from Yahoo Answers, but, I can tell you that whatever questions you have for us, you should be asking him. If you have the need to call him, call him...he's your hubby.





Ask him how he feels about you


Ask him about the arguments youre having and why


Tell him how hot and handsome he is ....but don't tell him this is something you just started to think of him.





You're newlywed and you are just beginning ';the game';. I've been married for some time now and I'm still learning. Its a lifetime learning experience, you will never fully know him, but you should learn to compromise with him and pick your battles.


You will think back ten years from now and you will laugh at things you are arguing about right now.








Also, just because he married you, that was not his promise to you that he will never disagree with you or argue with you.


Actually ';why did you marry me'; is a pretty immature statement.....unless he is calling you ugly, fat, stupid etc., or if he is contradicting what he has already known about you.





I hope this helps.Can chemistry be one sided between a married couple?
Just ask him ;) being newlyweds you should be spending more time getting along than fighting right now. But marriage is like a roller coaster. One day it's perfect the next can be turmoil lol


I know I have my times where I am so happy and in love and than the next I am feeling bitter and unappreciated.
Sounds like there is a pattern of argument and fighting here. Not a good start to a marriage, I'd say. The only advice I would give is never let the sun set on an argument. By this I mean don't go to bed with one or the other being still angry, settle it.





Chemistry is more often one-sided than two, however when it is two-sided, look out!
I know what you mean. At times I don't think my husband is all that husband. Because of all of the arguments we have had. Sometimes I don't feel like i am inlove with him. Just love for him because we have a baby. So I really don't know whta to say about this one.


Good Luck!


LL
you are married? i would have guessed you were 13 by your question. you sound really moronic.