What if I want to get married but I really don't want to ?

I'd like to see what its like to be married, but I really don't want to get married, is that so wrong?What if I want to get married but I really don't want to ?
if you aren't absolutely sure that you want to get married, than its not the right thing to do.What if I want to get married but I really don't want to ?
Getting married is an incredibly serious life-long commitment to someone. I can understand wanting to know what it's like to be married, just out of curiosity. It's a totally different way of life.


However, anyone who actually gets married just for the sake of getting married and not because they're actually committed to being with their spouse for forever makes me sick.


I can understand your curiosity, but don't even think about actually getting married until you can take it seriously and get married for the right reasons.
You want to get married to see what it's like, but you don't really want to get married. Lol Have you lost your mind? This isn't a game, it's a lifetime commitment.





You want to know what it's like to be in a committed relationship, then do what a lot of people do and just live with the person. If you decide you don't like pretending you are married, then leave. Just make sure you always use a condom and other birth control or you might find yourself in a lifetime commitment to being a father/mother to a child you don't want either.
I think you are asking for a lot of hurt. Don't just go and get married to find out what it is like. I will tellyou what is going to happen...you will be MISERABLE and you will end up going through a MISERBLE divorce or you will cheat. And he does not deserve to be USED for an experiment!





Do not use him just for your little science experiement. If you do do that, I think you are cold blooded and don't deserve anyone else in the future.
Well , me %26amp; m boyfriend are like a married couple.


He walks straight in my house , and it's always this ';HEY!'; no-one cares :L


He eats out all the food in my cupboards.


I wear his clothes all the time (like i am now)


Were like bestfriends.


We trust eachother with everything we have.


And even when we make mistakes , we listen to eachother , hear them out %26amp; forgive %26amp; forget.


Now we've been going out for 7 months %26amp; i'm 14.


But seriously , I love him with all of my heart and no-one can change that.



if you really don't want to be married you should not do it. If your heart isn't in it this will only cause hurt later. You should not compromise anyone's feelings simply because you want to test the waters. Be serious.
Getting married just to see what it's like is about the dumbest reason to get married I've ever heard of.





Wait til you grow up, then you can get married for the RIGHT reasons.
Well how old are you? If you are still youngish then there is no rush. Getting married just to see what it's like is not a good reason. You need to be with someone who you want to be married to.
just do like everyone else and play house


just get a woman and move in together and pay bills together



please don't take that attitude when you start to even consider having kids!
wait to find right one.