If you become pregnant after 4 months dating someone you love should you get married or wait?

We are 30 years old and finnancially sound but we don't even live together yet!If you become pregnant after 4 months dating someone you love should you get married or wait?
Wait. I got married over a pregnancy %26amp; it was the dumbest thing I ever did. We are divorced.If you become pregnant after 4 months dating someone you love should you get married or wait?
I wouldnt marry someone just because I got pregnant, if I really did love him I probably would but I would do it in the right time. Why rush into things. I wouldnt like to bring a child into a non loving environment. If I am not sure about my feelings for him I wouldnt. 4 months doesnt seem long enough to move in with someone even though you might think you know him well enough you might not know everything yet. Time will come when its right, maybe its good to have some space between the two of you right now, figured out if this is the man that you want to move in with and if he respects you has plans for you and your baby.
WAIT!!!! dont get married because of the baby. It seems like it would be right, but it's not quite right I don't think.





My brother got his gf pregnant, and their daughter is 2 now. He just proposed because they wanted to wait to pay for the daughter and make sure she was well taken care of. Then they wanted to get married when they became stable again and had enough money.





It does not pay to get married right away. It's a rush, and especially if you're questioning it, don't do it yet.





If you're still together and going strong well after the child is born, then do it because you love each other, not because you had a baby together
If i was you, i'd wait until the baby is born, and after a few months, if hes great with the baby, and your love is stronger than ever, get married when your baby's about three. My parents did this with me, and it worked excellent, please take my advice,


because if he loves you now, but if the baby gets to much, and he leaves goin thru a divorce is tough, and th wedding wud have been a bigggg waste of money.


I wish you to all happiness in the future, and congratulations on the baby.
That all depends on how you guys feel about each other. Take the pregnancy out of the equation. Now would you be talking about marriage? If so then marry him but if not then just wait it out. The baby is never a reason to get married. A few years down the road you, him, and your baby will be miserable if it wasnt for the right reasons.
that depends..have you and he talked about having kids, getting married? If not, how does he feel about it? Some men see this is a trap and want to run but if he is excited about it and you are excited about it, then just get married and be happy.
don't marry him.


wait.


just because you're having a child, that doesn't mean that you need to get married.


you never know how it will work out in the future.


of course you should stay with him and see how things work out, and then think about marriage.
i think four months is too soon. you don't want to get married and regret it. so i think that you should wait and get to know the guy on a more personal level before making such a big commitment
Try living together before you get married. Marriage is just legal business. You can love someone just as much without being bound together. So, wait until you are both sure that it will last.
I would not get married only for the baby, you can be great parents without wedding and once you really get to know each other then you can re-think this again.
If you are pregnant then you should get married to him or her but if he or her is not the right guy do not marry him or her!
right now your in a bit of tough situation i would not get married right away but at least move in together for the baby's sake and then see as time goes on how you still feel for each other
Beware





get married with him right now





otherwise he will definetly left you
At least move in together. If not for your baby then to work on being a closer family.