Married but have major feelings for old crush?

I've had a crush on someone who came back to town after 9 years. Been married for 6 months but can't stop thinking about him. Marriage is rocky partly because of my feelings for crush. What do i do? I won't cheat.Married but have major feelings for old crush?
Ouch. 6 months? You need to nip this in the bud.


Feelings for someone can go away but only if you separate yourself from this person. If he's in town, that will be especially hard. You might find yourself seeking him. DON'T. You might consider a marriage therapist. This is very unhealthy for your relationship with your husband, especially if you've only been married for 6 months. He obviously loves you and is willing to make a commitment to you. Don't ruin that for someone who might disappear for another 9 years. It'll be hard but you MUST stay away.Married but have major feelings for old crush?
Remember your marriage vows? Keep them. Do everything you can to make your marriage better. Crushes come and go, but a husband should be forever.
You've only been married for 6 months. I think you should get over your crush, if you really love your husband then you should get over it.

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