Thursday, January 21, 2010

What's a good age to get married? How long should you spend getting to know the person?

The best age to get married is personal. Whenever you are truly ready for marriage. There is no set age for everyone.





Also, I think it's a good idea to spend as much time as you feel necessary getting to know the other person. This situation is so personal, that no one has the right to infringe upon someone else some kind of set age and time range.What's a good age to get married? How long should you spend getting to know the person?
There is no ';age'; really. But I think getting married any earlier than 25 is idiotic. I think people need time to fully mature, get established and figure out who they are and what they really want out of life. This often takes until age 30, but around 25 you're at least mature enough so know what your getting into.





As far as getting to know someone.. you should date for no less than 5 years. The average romantic relationship fizzles out around the 3 year mark or earlier. Dating for 5 years and still having passion shows TRUE compatibility.





ALSO... if you feel eager to RUSH or ';hurry up'; and marry, then you're not doing it for the right reasons. There should be NO fear of losing the relationship if you don't ';solidify it'; on ';Paper';.What's a good age to get married? How long should you spend getting to know the person?
You should get married when you feel you are ready. I think you should get to know the person at least a year before the actual marriage, but I think 2-7 years of getting to know them would be more beneficial, of course dependent on your age and goals in life (if you are a 38 year old woman who wants children a 7 year ';courtship'; really isn't realistic).





My husband and I waited 5 years and have no regrets.
Well it would be ideal if the couple could wait until they are through college %26amp; have their career going,so they have a really good start in life with the money part of it. and you also have the chance that way to do some more growing up %26amp; are more ready for it. Then you can have kids %26amp; be financially stable %26amp; not be going to school still (%26amp;working as well)%26amp; raising kids at the same time.
It's not so much the age, it's the age and quaklity of teh relationship. Someone people find thei true love as high school sweethearts, others not till their 40's.





I personally got married at 18, we'd been together for 4 years and we're celebrating out 7th anniversary next month :-)
Whatever age you are truly ready for it. However, is anyone ever really ready for marriage?





You should spend however long it takes getting to know someone. Some people are engaged for years and some are engaged for months. There is no set time. Take the time that YOU need.
I would say a good age is from 24-27 for a woman and 25-35 for a man but really whenever you feel you're ready and i think at least a year getting to know the person but again if you're ready after a month why not?
A good age? It depends on the maturity of the people, not their age.


It may be a good idea to live with the person for a couple of years before marriage.
30 - 35. Do your traveling, experimenting and running around first. Then settle down with a life partner. You may know your partner months or years, it really doesn't matter unless you have kids then it gets more important

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