What age were you when you got married the first time?

Just curious. I just feel so lost, so behind cause I'm a 22 year old male, about to be 23 and I haven't even been in a serious relationship yet and I'm not good with women. Hope I find the right girl someday soon.What age were you when you got married the first time?
Married at 21 and have been now for 43 years - we have just retired and having a great time travelling and getting new hobbies and interests. Don't worry about marriage yet - travel overseas - you will probably meet someone nice there.What age were you when you got married the first time?
Just turned 20yrs old he was 24 yrs old.


The night before I told my mum that I didn't want to get married.


She said OK, but all I could think of was how much had gone into the wedding Money spent that would not be refunded etc.,


The Marriage was a farce. He was an alcoholic.


We separated after 16-1/2 yrs. I only divorced him 10yrs later when I was told that I would be liable for his debts as we were still married (he was an alcoholic).


After 10 months I ventured out again. Met lots of great people and have a few relationships - None of which worked out. Mainly because I do want to be a friend with Benefits. No Respect is so not worth it!!!


My son is 30yrs old and is getting married later this year; they have been together for 6 yrs are buying their own home and both have good professional employment. Mature and responsible
It's not about the right time but the right person. I'm 23 and my husband of 2 years has left me 14 weeks pregnant and our son for another married women. We rushed things and look where it got me. Next time I marry, if I do, I don't care what age I am as long as he's the man of my dreams that wants to make me his queen.
You shouldn't be worrying about relationships! Focus on yourself, have a good time, focus on your career, travel and do everything you've always wanted to do. Being shy with the opposite sex is really nervewracking though, so maybe get some hypnotherapy or counselling to build your self confidence. Don't focus on being in a relationship, you must be happy with yourself and the rest will follow. Good luck!
I was 19. He was 23. The most important factors in considering marriage is not age but, truthfully communication with each other. Since, no one is perfect, this will help you discover the strength and conditions of your love therefore, determining if it is likely to last.
Had to comment. Married the first time, hehehhe. That's what we've come down to.





And how many times did you get married. Well the first one lasted 4 months. He abused me by disagreeing with me.





The second one was my soul mate. It's was a life time of 2 years. I had him arrested for stalking after I dumped him.





My current marriage is with the love of my life. I hate him and feel trapped.





** maybe you should re-word it to, when did you get your first divorce, it's would be more politically correct.
I was 19 but that was many many many years ago...still married 40 yrs later. I would tell you not to be in a hurry to settle down...go see and do as much as you can before you settle down...get out and mix with people from all over the world and then the time will come when you wil meet the right person to spend the rest of your life with. We are now only getting to do and see the the things we did not do when we where younger....We both agree ...that we should have done many more things before we married .....but hindsight is a wonderful thing.
I was 28 years old when I got married and am currently filed for divorce. Don't rush into marriage because you feel obliged to get married to someone so you can say you're married. I did that and look where it got me. Just wait patiently and just when you least expect it, she will come along. Good luck!
I was 20 hubby was 25 been married for 9 years best years of my life. Don't worry about it too much, just live your life as it is and the right girl will come. you are still young and have plenty of time. build up your confidence and in no time you will have a woman to share your life with.
Got married at 22, and still in the same marriage at 47. Coming up to our 25th Wedding Anniversary.


But how old isn't as important as marrying the right one. Wait for her, and all else should fall into place in its natural time.
22 is still so young .You have plenty of time got married when I was 26 and he was 27.I think that all you need is a little self confidence and you should be fine.You just need to find Ms Right.Good Luck
I was 32 the first time and 43 this time.....you've got a long life a head of you. Enjoy it, find out who your are, date a lot!
I was 28. Spend your twenties traveling the world, meeting new cultures and growing into a mature person. After that get married.
life today is not the same as when your parents were young. they got married young today the whole world is in a hurry.... dont hurry marriage it wont last
19 and still married to the same guy. Don't worry your special someone will come one day so don't rush it. In due time....
i was 18 it was the biggest mistake i ever made although we stayed married for 25 years i feel i wasted a life time





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**16 the first time


21 the last time and still marred***
Pfffttt @#!% Marriage i don't wanna get married till a long long time
19 and it was a huge mistake.





Married my 2nd and LAST husband when I was 24. Still with him to this day.
I was 18, which was dumb, as I've come to learn in my old age.





THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE


Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.





First, it is an established statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when females reach full mature on the physical, emotional, and hormonal levels. At this point, a woman is fully prepared to have and handle children, as well as a male that is still not fully mature.





Males don’t reach full physical and hormonal maturity until age 30. This is also when they reach their peak emotional maturity, but not to the point of being fully independent. Half of the male emotional health comes from a woman. The biochemical frequency range of the male brain adjusts itself to match that of the female, developing an emotional symbiotic relationship.





Couples who begin cohabiting and/or get married prior to age 24 can find themselves drawing away from each other as each reaches full maturity. Their whole view of the world, and each other, changes. This doesn’t happen to all couples, but clearly it is a factor in most relationship breakdowns.





In a couple, who has made the right choices, and found that person who truly compliments them, a symbiotic relationship develops also on the physical level. There is a reason why humans were designed to be monogamous. It comes down to the sexual experience that goes beyond pleasure and reproduction.





Seminal plasma (fluid carrying semen) and vaginal fluids contain addition chemicals that the other sex needs. Chemicals in seminal plasma help strengthen the Uterine Wall, not only making it stronger for the carrying of a fetus, but also because the uterus provides physical support for other organs, such as the bladder and the intestinal tract. For males, vaginal fluid reinforces their immune system and affects future production of semen. But, there’s a downside.





The human body adapts to the specific molecular makeup of the seminal plasma and vaginal fluid. The two bodies develop a symbiotic relationship that becomes dependent upon the other. Having multiple partners keeps these functions in constant disarray, always trying to adapt to a new molecular makeup, affecting the overall health of the individual.





This is one of the reasons, and benefits, of developing a long term monogamous relation. For men, there are additional reasons.





A married male lives 20 years longer than a single male, on average. Aside from the physical symbiosis, because a woman provides emotional support, he has less stress, an overall cause of frequent death in males.





For a female, her reproductive and sexual health last longer, not only with the ability to reproduce into her 40s and even 50s, but also continue the ability for sexual pleasure well into the later years.





A monogamous couple become a single, symbiotic unit, standing ready to take on what the world throws at them. They provide the umbrella of strength for the family and the protection of the children. They are core from which the children draw their knowledge and experience of what a family should be, so that they may follow the example of the parents, when they reach maturity and venture out into the world.





This is what it is truly like to be in a relationship, when you make the right choices.