Friday, January 15, 2010

I have a son from my previous marriage, my boyfriend wants to get married with prenup. Good or bad?

My boyfriend said that a friend told him that if he did not get married to me through a prenup who could end up paying $$$ to my ex husband because both of our incomes combined is greater than my ex's. How do I convince him that this is not true?I have a son from my previous marriage, my boyfriend wants to get married with prenup. Good or bad?
this is not true first of all your ex can't collect on anything gained or earned after the divorce but your boyfriend needs to talk to a lawyer he is very uneducated on this matter and he is listening to someone with even less. The best bet is to talk to a lawyer. Now to me it sounds like he wants a prenup and is just using that as an excuss.I have a son from my previous marriage, my boyfriend wants to get married with prenup. Good or bad?
I don't know whether that is true or not, but you should want a prenup to protect your son's interests. There is nothing wrong with prenups--if something goes bad, you're protected, if it all goes well, then having one doesn't ever matter, right? We have one, and it has nothing to do with thinking our marriage will ever end-it's long and complicated, but it's business related.
It's not true, your ex can't go after him, it's only your income. But, is it really that big of a deal? If he thinks it will protect him from your ex, then just do it, show him you love him and you would do anything to protect him. I'm sure he'll appreciate it.
im sure he knows this already he is just using this as an excuse for you to sign it cause if you two were to divorce then he would have to give you half his stuff and to be honest i would do the same thing
Allow the prenup. It will save you both a lot of grief if things (gods forbid) go bad in te future.
Go with the prenup it will help you in the end too and if you dont divorce it wont really matter will it ?
Just get a prenup. There's nothing wrong with them.
Why is he already thinking about divorce? I don't believe in prenups because I don't think you should think about the end before you begin. It does not show that he is fully committed. If he were then he would know that you love him and never plan on leaving.

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