Monday, May 10, 2010

I married a filipina and she is no longer taking care of me. What should I do?

She is not talking to me, cooking for me or any romance at all even though I massage her and try to make her feel relaxed. After 12 years of marriage this is hard to take.I married a filipina and she is no longer taking care of me. What should I do?
Wait a minute! Wasn't that you a couple weeks ago bragging about how filipinas are way better than american women?I married a filipina and she is no longer taking care of me. What should I do?
You have to figure out first what caused her to treat you like that. Maybe you did something ';unforgivable'; or hurtful to her.


Even if you apologize, you will have to accept that you do not have the power to decide if she will forgive you.


However, if you do not know why she is acting that way (maybe you're insensitive or something), you should try to talk to her and tell her that you're an insensitive person and that you would like to know why she is acting like that..


Admitting that you have faults and saying sorry is half the solution. She will have to meet you halfway and accept your apology and forgive you..
First are you stereotyping or implying something? Ehh well dont worry about that.





She could have lost the lust or has come to some sort of point in life where things become a dull reality or a confused point.





That or she might not like you anymore not your fault but studys do show that marriages end sooner now, which im guessing because of all the variety today, marriage has become one too.





Try engaging in a simple non-offensive conversation, ask why but remember people are all different, dont expect to come out with a positive answer.





If she decides to respond key thing is listen. we have 2 ears but only 1 mouth. think about that.





Try to understand if she doesnt talk well try calmly explaining your problem.
How old is she??probably she is suffering in mid life crisis.Or maybe she found someone else.You have to talk with her about this things..for the couples open comunication is very important.
maybe talk to her and tell her what you feel. Also suggest going to marriage counselor.
Send her *** back, then move and cut off all bank accounts and such. Teach that little ****** who brought her to the dance.
may be she lost the interest in you.
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