Thursday, May 13, 2010

Would you rather be single for life or be married?

I am 24, a grad student in college only had one girlfriend who cheated on me, and I am single. But in this day in age, do you think people should be married or be single. I am leaning on being single only because I have yet to find someone who is trustworthy.Would you rather be single for life or be married?
i think that you are doing the best thing for now, but when you do meet someone, remember, you have to learn to trust and they have to earn your trust...no one trust anyone from the start, the same goes for them. and the fact that you have been stung in the past is going to make it harder to trust again. just don't rush ino things until you are happy with things when you do meet someone, but don't give up all together. good luckWould you rather be single for life or be married?
It depends on the person and if they can live by themselves (not just financially, but emotionally). Some people are secure enough where they can be by themselves without feeling lonely, but some people are not.





Personally, I would like to get married and raise 2 kids to the best of my ability.





Don't let one relationship ruin it for you though. I have been cheated on in my first relationship (2 years), and since then I've been through several relationships and am currently happy in one. Not everyone is a cheater, some people just don't have the desire to if it's meant to be.
I LOVE being married!!! I'm 27, (met my husband when we were 24). We broke up for a few weeks just before we got engaged, and I tried living the single life again- it SUCKED. I was meeting all of these people with all of this baggage that I didn't want to deal with- (kids, drug and alcohol habits, or creepy personalities). I still like to get dressed up and go out with my girlfriends every now and then, but I like knowing that I don't have to impress some guy, or play the call-back game, or pretend to be someone I'm not, because I already have an amazing guy at home who is my best friend to go cuddle up to. I get to have sex whenever I want, I always have someone to pal around with, and I feel sexy even when I gain 5 pounds or I'm wearing pajamas. I had no idea being married would be this cool, but it is, and it's great! =)
That is so sad, but it does seem to happen a lot these days, that people are not trustworthy. I would like to encourage you and say though that trustworthy people are out there, look I am fortunate enough to be talking to one right now. I have been hurt by my hubby who did lie to me for an extended period of time, (no it was not another women), but we did work thru it. I hope you find the joys that come with marriage they are to wonderful for words. Goo Luck!
Hard question. I'm just shy of 22 and never had a boyfriend. I'm actually still a virgin too. I'm waiting for marriage to have sex, so yes, I believe in marriage, but I don't want to be married right now. I get a lot of pressure from friends and family to be in a relationship, but its my choice. Just like it's your choice. Don't let anyone influence this. It's a big choice. I know in today's world it's no big deal to get a divorce, but you'll only ever have one first. Choose her wisely.
In a perfect world, married, the companionship would be better.





In our world where most marriages suck, probably single.
i enjoy being single yes but im happy to come home and someones there waiting for me and loves me no matter wat i do or say!!!


single life is for some ppl but not for me!!! i want to be married and happy i practiclly am already...lol
married, think about when you get older.


no one will take care of you if you live single.


have a family, some say that's the purpose of life.
hey.....it doesn't matter how old you are


if you've fallen in love and want to be with her then go ahead and marry her


but since you haven't met anyone whom you love explicitly yet...you should wait until you find her
Remember, half of marriages end in divorce. The other half end in death.





Stay single as long as you can.
Go with your heart ... Someday you may meet someone who you love and want to marry . Maybe you never will ...... Don't look for marriage , it will find you if you let it.
dude dont get married till your like 30 or 34 live it up wiel being singal go to bars and pick up chicks man then settal down and get married to much comitment to get married do it when your older
Married, definitely. Being single sucks.
OMG thats hard ! I don't believe in marriage. I've seen it's work, it's just ruined perfect relationships but uh I guess married ( divorce can be an option if anything )
married. id feel more in place.
i'm too young to really decide right now, but i would say married

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